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Opinion

  • Faded Blue Jeans and Pearls

    If there’s one thing every Southern lady has in her closet, it’s that favorite pair of faded blue jeans. Miss Kelli Eidson of Atlanta has parlayed her love of simple fashion into a new blog: Faded Blue Jeans And Pearls. As she was already doing so many fabulous things on Pinterest, Tumblr, and Twitter, she has, “finally gotten around to creating a blog about my beloved home.” Here’s a lovely post from Kelli about our honeysuckle ways…

    “I am so incredibly blessed to consider myself a Southern girl. I delight in saying “yes ma’am” to my mother and saying “God bless” when something takes me aback. I involuntarily spit out any tea that is not as sweet as the day is long. I address strangers as sweetheart and dear without so much as a second thought. My hair is forced to suffer through the intensity of the heat and humidity in Georgia during the summertime, but I revel in it because it allows me to wear charming little sundresses.

    I think we’re made a little differently down here. I was made to play outside as a child only to return home with my feet, face, and elbows a little dirty. It is widely accepted that Momma knows best whether I tend to like it or not. I am a God-fearing woman and happy about it.

    Southern hospitality is not a myth. If you come to my home, you will be greeted with a genuine smile and a warm hug from me (and probably my Momma too). Life’s greatest lessons were put under the banner of “growing up things.”

    If you live above the Mason-Dixon line, I am terribly sorry, but you are a Yankee. If you happen to show allegiance to any New York baseball team, you will always be a Damn Yankee in my eyes. Enough of you lost souls have managed to navigate your way down here and we take you. We’ll try to teach you a few things.

    I don’t don as deep of a Southern accent as I did when I was younger, but you will hear me say “y’all” and “fixin’ to” on a fairly regular basis. I could sit on a porch swing for hours and watch the world go by without so much as a glimpse of anxiety.”

    We totally agree. Keep up with all our @Pretty_Southern sayings using #LoveTheSouth, and be sure to keep up with Kelli on Twitter too!

    Kelli Eidson
    Kelli Eidson is a true Southern girl hailing from Kennesaw, Ga. She’s an avid reader, cardigan aficionado and Braves fanatic. Y’all can follow her on Twitter, and on her blog Faded Blue Jeans And Pearls.

  • Love VT

    Love VT

    I recently found Lauren’s piece “Love The South” and wanted to try something in a similar fashion myself. So I thought, what better way to kick off my senior year at Virginia Tech than a tribute to the place I’ve spent the last three years of my life, and where a final year awaits

    And so I present to y’all my profession of undying love to Hokie Land, “Love VT.” (more…)

  • The Red & Black Needs Help

    The University of Georgia’s Grady College of Journalism & Mass Communication experienced two great tragedies this year. The first was when long-time professor, Conrad Fink, passed away. Fink left behind a legacy spanning 80 years of fantastic journalism with almost three decades of teaching us young “rascals” of the world to become decent reporters, editors and publishers. His classroom was small (a rarity at UGA) where he gathered the best and brightest Grady had to offer to impart his words of wisdom. I can’t even think about Grady now without remembering Fink.

    Grady’s second great loss occurred this week, when Polina Marinova resigned as Editor-in-Chief of The Red & Black. Marinova spent this past summer interning at USA Today. Her story profiling Aimee Copeland’s recovery process even made national headlines before she returned to Athens for her final fall semester. I’ve met Marinova only once, at Professor Fink’s memorial service. Upon meeting her, it’s easy to see that this girl has got “it.” I couldn’t think of a better Grady candidate to serve as Editor of The Red & Black.

    I was in her shoes about five years ago. Back then it was my turn to captain the helm at UGA’s newspaper. For those who have never visited The Red & Black, the pretty two-story building sits atop a hill in Athens looking down over the historic campus. To write for The Red & Black is to be a part of history in the making. Established in 1893, as the independent voice for students, this newspaper’s mission is to empower its young journalists with their right to Freedom of Speech. UGA was home to some of the most famous writers such as Lewis Grizzard, and even The AJC’s own publisher, Amy Glennon. Other notable Red & Black alumni at The AJC include Kyle Wingfield, Greg Bluestein, Elissa Eubanks, Matt Kempner, plus many more.

    Therefore, it was disappointing to see The AJC not take a stronger stance on the ruckus over in Athens this past week. For those readers who missed it, on Aug. 15 it was announced in a memo from the board (albeit a draft) that UGA’s students would no longer have the power to veto content for their own publication. Final discretion of all stories would be given to a newly created Editorial Director. Effectively, an executive committee presiding over the student newspaper was trying to take power away from its student journalists. This is the first time in 120 years such audacity was ever considered.

    The national media, including The New York Times, Huffington Post, Gawker and The Poynter Institute gave more editorial space to this story than Georgia’s own leading newspaper. When I looked to The AJC for coverage, the best it could come up with was a story from The AP Wire. As a former Editor of The Red & Black, I was bombarded on emails, texts, and Facebook posts with the simple question “What the hell is going on in Athens?” I could only respond with the answer I knew to be true: if Fink was alive, this would never have happened.

    Last Thanksgiving, AJC columnist Kyle Wingfield’s paid homage to Professor Fink as his mentor; yet, I’ve seen nothing from the staff of The AJC calling attention to the dire situation at their own college paper. Perhaps The AJC didn’t think this story was newsworthy. The other major media outlets who care about journalism in America sure thought this was fit to print.

    Thank God…Marinova had the gumption to call “foul.” She and the entire group of desk editors resigned from The Red & Black, launching their own website and Twitter page appropriately called “Red & Dead”. Yet the AJC hasn’t published her side of the story. By the way, Marinova is from Atlanta. The young 20-something alumna from North Springs High School made headlines in The New York Times. Isn’t that newsworthy in-and-of-itself?

    And perhaps The AJC thought the story would die away. Harry Montevideo, The Red & Black’s publisher of more than 20 years sure did. “I hate to say it, but from my viewpoint it was an overreaction,” Montevideo told The Poynter Institute. “It was our best attempts at creating discussion and dialogue around it. We were met with an emotional response.”

    As a former Editor of The Red & Black, my heart broke upon hearing the news of the staff walking out of the building on Wednesday. Sure, it was an emotional response, but it was the right one, and the student staff should not be penalized for it. This is my formal request to The Red & Black board to reinstate Polina Marinova, Julia Carpenter, and the rest of student staff who resigned last week, should they so desire to return. I know the majority of Red & Black alumni feel the same.

    Grady will be in dire straits if it cannot continue to supply its most talented student journalists the opportunity to manage their own newspaper. Although The Red & Black became an independent student newspaper in 1980, completely free from the influence of the University’s administration, perhaps it is now time for Grady to get more involved. The whole reason this hullabaloo occurred was because of money. The Red & Black went to printing once a week last fall, when it previously published Monday through Friday, due to rising costs. Continuous coverage could be found online at redandblack.com. But insufficient funds incited Montevideo and the board to hire a staff of professionals to help increase revenues. It was the new General Manager, a board member by the name of Ed Stamper, who wrote that terrible memo. Stamper has hence resigned, but the problem of funding remains.

    Maybe it’s time Grady gave The Red & Black some financial help. If The Red & Black board cannot continue to protect its own students’ First Amendment rights, then perhaps Grady should play a stronger role in the management of its students’ media outlet. Without The Red & Black and Professor Fink, The AJC wouldn’t have the staffers it does today.

  • The Red & Black’s Dire Position

    Editor’s Note: PrettySouthern.com was created on the premise of spreading good news across the South. In these dark times of demise regarding our First Amendment rights, it was our duty to publish the sentiments of one of our own contributors.

    I, Polina Marinova, have resigned as the editor-in-chief from The Red & Black, the student newspaper covering the University of Georgia. The Red & Black’s top editors, design staff, photo staff and reporters walked out of the newspaper building this afternoon.

    The Red & Black has covered the University of Georgia community since 1893 and has been independent of the University since 1980. The newspaper has always been a student-run operation, but recently, we began feeling serious pressure from people who were not students. In less than a month, The Red & Black has hired more than 10 permanent staff with veto power over students’ decisions.

    In a draft outlining the “expectations of editorial director at The Red & Black,” a member of The Red & Black’s Board of Directors stated the newspaper needs a balance of good and bad. Under “Bad,” it says, “Content that catches people or organizations doing bad things. I guess this is ‘journalism.’ If in question, have more GOOD than BAD.” I took great offense to that, but the board member just told me this is simply a draft. But one thing that would not change is that the former editorial adviser, now the editorial director, would see all content before it is published online and in print. For years, students have had final approval of the paper followed by a critique by the adviser only after articles were published. However, from now on, that will not be the case. Recently, editors have felt pressure to assign stories they didn’t agree with, take “grip and grin” photos and compromise the design of the paper.

    But what’s most alarming to me is that there was no input from The Red & Black student staff about any of these changes. I was doing an internship this summer, and I did not receive any materials related to these changes until I myself emailed the board member about it. Even then, nothing was solidified, and I still do not even know what the print product will look like in a week. I’ve worked at this paper since I was a freshman and held multiple leadership positions throughout. This semester, we have a really talented, smart and dedicated staff that had no voice in these changes. It all came from the top, not from the students.

    The Red & Black has always been the best experience for student journalists. It’s no longer a place where lessons can be learned without “serious repercussions.” We don’t believe that is a learning environment.

    As the former editor-in-chief, I stood by my editors and staff 100 percent and what I found out today was that we all stood together.

    [author] [author_image timthumb=’on’]https://prettysouthern.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Polina.jpg[/author_image] [author_info]Polina Marinova is a University of Georgia student and former fall Red & Black Editor-in-Chief. As of Aug. 15, 2012, she resigned from her post in the pursuit of her First Amendment rights. Follow Polina on Twitter and check back for more of her adventures. [/author_info] [/author]

  • Is D.C. Southern?

    Although I’ve lived in the D.C. area for exactly a month now, I still don’t know where I am. Am I in the North? Or am I still in the South?

    Well after a month’s worth of observations, I’ve concluded that I’m still in a Southern city where most people prefer Coke over Pepsi and politely open doors for you. (That being said, most drivers will rudely honk, yell and cut you off on the streets of D.C. If you think you’re a skilled driver because you drove through the heart of Atlanta, you’ll be eaten alive in D.C.)

    Even though I am the only intern at USA Today who goes to the University of Georgia, I don’t feel like an outsider. Yes, there are Chick-fil-A restaurants here, and yes, people love that delicious chicken sandwich just as much. And if that doesn’t convince you that D.C. has a strong Southern flair, then just look at how much Southern food you can find in the city.

    At a restaurant called Georgia Brown’s located in the heart of D.C. you can find Southern Fried Chicken and Carolina Shrimp & Grits. At Southern Hospitality you can get classic Mac & Cheese and sweet potato fries.

    As far as country music goes, I haven’t heard much. Well, unless you count the man in traffic who was blasting Luke Bryan in his car with the windows down. However, American Idol winner and Georgia native Phillip Phillips is scheduled to perform in D.C. for the Fourth of July celebration at the National Mall. Country music star Josh Turner will also be part of the show on Wednesday. So I would say the South is well represented in the nation’s capitol.

    But if you still think that D.C. is the North, don’t pack your winter coats just yet. It was 104 degrees on Friday.

    [author] [author_image timthumb=’on’]https://prettysouthern.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/07/Polina.jpg[/author_image] [author_info]Polina Marinova is a University of Georgia student and fall Red & Black editor-in-chief. Right now, she’s interning at USA Today and spends most of her time sitting in traffic. Follow Polina on Twitter and check back for more of her adventures. [/author_info] [/author]

  • Happy Father’s Day

    It’s a great day to be a Daddy in the South. Here at PrettySouthern.com, we wanted to say thank you to all the fathers, papas, pe-paws, dads, pappys, pa’s and men who lead by example for their children. One of our favorite daddy’s in literature is Captain Rhett Butler from Gone With the Wind. It didn’t matter what nefarious life he’d lead before he and Scarlett had little Bonnie Blue Butler. This gentleman was willing to give his little girl everything her heart desired. Here are just a few of our favorite moments with dad over the years. Feel free to write yours below in our comments section.

    Meeting Mama during fraternity rush; without which, none of us would be here today

    Changing diapers…that sh*t must have stank!

    Building, finding, buying the perfect Southern house to raise a family

    Getting a puppy/kitten

    Teaching the kids how to “shag” like they do in the Carolinas by dancing with Mom on that linoleum floor in the tiny kitchen

    Coaching football, soccer, baseball, lacrosse, tee-ball, handball or any other sport

    Allowing us to believe in the power our dreams

    Building sand castles

    Driving lessons. To this day, we can only parallel park because of our dad’s!

    Thanks for the braces and giving us smiles that charm every soul

    Moving us into the dorms our freshman year and multiple moves in-and-out-of apartments

    Breakfast at Waffle House sitting at the counter

    Game Day in Athens on any given Saturday

    Putting more money in our checking accounts ”just because”

    Teaching us how to garden, grill, cook, clean, all the things to make a house a home.

    Dad’s – y’all are the best, thank you for always providing for us, and we love you so very much.